For anyone who is curious about how I keep up with my hair, this is what I’ve fallen into the habit of doing lately. First, the items:

Shampoo: Arganic Extra Virgin Olive Oil Infinite Moisturizing Shampoo.
I’m looking for a new bottle or a good replacement, as I am almost out. It’s sulfate-free!
Conditioner: Silkience Silk-Smooth Conditioner
I really like this conditioner! It’s cheap and works well. Also sulfate-free, but has alcohol. However, it has never made my hair feel  dry…
Rinse: Apple Cider Vinegar
I just filled my spray bottle and poured some vinegar and a little coconut oil. You can find a recipe anywhere!
Sprays: Water & Coconut Oil (picture of the coconut oil I used in this post)
Used for wetting dry hair that needs to be styled and for whenever I feel like my hair needs a little spritz.
Palmer’s Olive Oil Conditioning Spray Oil
I don’t use it too much. It smells weird, but my scalp likes it.
Rasta Locks & Twist No More Itch Gro Spray
For calming an itchy scalp in between washings!
Creams: Cantu Shea Butter Coconut Curling Cream
I mostly use it for moisturizing, haven’t tried it for curl definition next. Maybe next post? No… Next post will be how I bleach my hair!
Softee Indian Hemp Hair Grease
Can this be considered a cream? I know I shouldn’t use it, but it’s more convenient that oil.
Tools: Large-toothed comb
Paddle brush & boar bristle brush
Ponytail holders

Nearly every weekend, usually on a Friday I wash my hair. I start by parting my hair into four sections and repeating the same steps, one section at a time.

  1. Get section wet and spray down with ACV rinse. I concentrate mainly on my scalp because it helps control my itchy dry scalp.
  2. On shampoo days, I take a little of the Arganics and rub it through the section and my scalp. It’s sulfate free, so it doesn’t lather very much.
  3. Next (or first if I’m not shampooing that day) I use the Silkience conditioner. It smells like apples and completely eliminates the stink of the vinegar. Also, it doesn’t leave an overpowering smell of its own on your hair (probably because it’s cheap).
  4. I detangle with my large-toothed comb and sometimes brush it out.
  5. I then twist the section up and secure it with a ponytail holder.
  6. Wrap up in an old t-shirt to soak up excess water without over-drying or distressing hair.

Voila! My wash regimen. Styling is usually a bit more varied, of course, depending on the style. But my go to style lately has been twists or braids. I also do one section at a time here. This is how I go about it:

  1. I take a lock of hair and spray it with the coconut oil water mix if the hair has become too dry (like when I don’t do my hair on a wash day).
  2. Lightly grease the scalp around the lock (or the oil, if you’re a better person than me)
  3. The lock then gets a finger of the Cantu curling cream worked through it and brushed straight with the boar bristle brush. (I get a really pretty curling effect when I do this, but I’ve never let it stay like that. I ought to try one day!)
  4. Twist or braid (Or finger coil or bantu knot) the lock.

And then you would continue throughout the whole head with that. It’s very simple, but can be time consuming. Lately I’ve been making really large twists out braids and then pulling it into a ponytail in the morning. Sometimes I may undo them, sometimes not. It’s usually not very pretty or stylish, but it has been getting the job done, and I noticed today that my hair feels a lot softer and looks shinier and stronger.

Good luck, all! Tonight I’m going to start packing after I finish my hair. I’m moving next week! 🙂


I met a fellow product junkie today who made me realize I’ve been neglecting my blogging duties (again). She asked me about a product I was buying (more on that later) and since I haven’t used it yet, I directed her to my blog to check soon to see if I’ve posted about it. Of course, I have to be a regular poster in the first place for that to happen! Unfortunately, I gave her the wrong url…But she’ll figure it out…Right?


I took up an offer from a friend of mine to get my hair flat ironed. I haven’t had it done in quite a while, and I really wanted to see how long it was…So why not? I am primarily concerned about the health of my hair, rather than the length so I went in apprehensive and took defensive measures to protect against heat.

Meet two more friends of mine! Organic coconut oil and Garnier Fructis Blow Dry Perfector!

As you know, the new thing in the natural community is coconut oil, so I had to give it a try. I have used coconut oil based products before (Blue Magic Coconut Oil Hair Conditioner. You know the stuff!), but that was before going natural and before paying attention to my hair’s reaction to products. Coconut oil has anti-bacterial properties to prevent hair loss, moisturizes, and has a higher melting and boiling point than many oils, making it an ideal heat protectant. The Blow Dry Perfector contains argan oil, which is rich in omega-3s and is great for smoothing and straightening hair.

A few hours before it was to be straightened, I washed, treated with coconut oil, rinsed and then braided my hair after running the Fructis through it. My friend was a bit upset, because she wanted my hair wet so that it’d be easier to blow dry, and I hadn’t been able to rinse out some of the oil. So I had to wet my hair AGAIN and she blew it out….Mostly.

Then she went through most of my hair with my flat iron, and then decided it wasn’t hot enough. (Quote “I touched it and it didn’t even burn my hand!”) SO she went through again with her own, got tired and passed my head over to our other friend, who went through my head all over again! Needless to say, I was there for a while, but I had fun with them and got the result I wanted (They weren’t as pleased :D)

It was much longer than I thought. It moved when I walked. It bounced! I could toss it around or whip it out of my face. I was having so much fun! Best of all, my scalp didn’t itch at all (I think thanks to the coconut oil). I thought everything was going well until something odd happened…

People weren’t saying my hair looked ‘cool’ or ‘cute’ or ‘interesting’. They used words like ‘beautiful’ and ‘gorgeous’. I got hit on a lot more. I acted different, more confident. But that’s not what bothered me…What got me down is how much it took a toll on my naturalista psyche. I started questioning my natural beauty, wondering if I should just keep my hair straight. I just knew that people were like “Finally, that nappy-headed girl came to her senses!”

Then it rained, my hair puffed out like magic, and I finally did come to my senses! I was taking things way too seriously. It’s going to be a long time before the majority of people will cherish anything but long, straight hair. And that’s fine by me, it’s beautiful too. But so is natural hair! And so am I.


I was inspired to do mini-twists (my third try) again to get ready for my first real spring break vacation! Every year before this I’ve been a high schooler or stuck working a new job that I couldn’t take a week off from just yet. Well, my wonderful boyfriend and I saved up all the money we could and just…left. Haha, it was great! We brought friends, had a crappy hotel, fun, food and drinks…Oh, but you’re here about hair, right?

I don’t have any recent pictures, but here are some twist I’ve had before, as a reference.

Now, while shopping at the beauty supply store I came across this:

The famous ecostyler! I’ve heard a lot of good things and have seen it many tines, but this was the first time I decided to buy it because I knew exactly what I could do with it. You see, my scalp gets itchy. Everyday for most of my life, before and after going natural. So it had only been a few days to a week since I had these twists in and they were already looking fuzzy! This is why I decided to wash and moisturize my poor scalp (I also bought Jamaican Mango & Lime itch relief spray for good measure. Life saver!) and use the Ecostyler gel to help keep my twists intact. Take a look.


(It’s the less frizzy looking side with the product) Not only did my hair naturally curl up because of the water, the Ecostyler held the twists, the curly ends, and even made it shinier! I was very pleased once it was dry and even slept on it multiple times without any problems.

I’ll stop gushing over how great this was for the beach…Eventually. Water, wind, humidity and sun did nothing to it. I could headbang to my boyfriend’s favorite dubstep songs (ew!) and it was very touchable.

It even looked cool and stylish as a twist out, as opposed to the twist out from the last mini-twists:

My only problem was that it didn’t turn into an awesome fro like my last two minitwists did. Must have been the ecostyler!

It was still cute and pretty durable. And a great protective style. After I combed it out nearly 3 weeks later, there was only minimal hair loss. (And for those wondering, I’m fairly certain I used pure Shea butter and cantu moisturizer for my initial twists)

Happy twisting, everyone!

(Hint hint! The next post may be about straight hair! ;])

What’s that? After almost a year of nothingness I’ve decided to blog twice in the same day? Yes, nonexistent readers, it’s true. After posting on my general, now turned sewing blog and taking a trip to Walmart, I’ve thought hard about it and decided that the death of my camera shouldn’t stop me from updating here once in a while. So while I save up for a new cam, here’s an opinionated, experience-based discussion.

Today in the freezer section while I had an armful of groceries (I almost always forget to grab a cart) I was approached by a fellow natural who, without any sort of greeting asked “How long have you been natural?” This happens to me a lot (and it’s always a little strange that they never say hello, but whatever), so I told her, and she proceeded to ask me about how I got my hair to do what its doing today and blah blah blah. Two things.

My hair looked like crap. I had a sinfully cute style two days ago (no pictures, don’t ask), but it didn’t hold up very well after releasing my ribbon and scratching my scalp like no tomorrow. (I replaced the ribbon when I realized I needed to go shopping, but still…borderline hot mess) I think the only reason she noticed it was because of how obnoxiously large my puff of hair was.

Was I supposed to ask her anything? Never fails, when people comment positively on my hair, clothes, style or ask me questions, I just say thanks, respond to their question, and keep moving. Am I obligated to ask her about her hair? Furthermore, should I compliment other women’s shoes (like that will ever happen)  if they say they like my shirt? I just don’t have a natural response to ask about or compliment others in return and it leaves stranger encounters a bit awkward for me. I also just learned about a year ago to take compliments instead of disagreeing with the person. That’s me…delightfully awkward and self -deprecating.

What do you think? And what makes people compliment strangers out of the blue? I rarely do it myself, so I’m at a bit of a loss.

Did you miss me? My laptop died, so my posts had to die with it. But everything is back up and running again! The next few posts will be a little old, but hopefully still valuable!


Don’t get excited! Queen Helene and Cantu haven’t teamed up. I just ran out of oil for my treatment. 😀 By the way, this post has a lot of stuff going on. It starts like this with sad dry hair:

My hair was feeling a little stripped from clarifying it because I didn’t properly moisturize afterwards. I know, I’m terrible. To fix this, I had my good friend Kristin give me her leftover oil from her own treatment. I hoped I’d have better results than she did.
The three things you need for a hot oil treatment are hot water, oil, and a container that won’t melt! I heated up a jar of water in the microwave and let the tube of oil sit in it to get hot. I was worried the tip would get into the water and would flood the tube, but it floated nicely.

The process wasn’t very hard, though it was time consuming. After parting my hair in half, I took sections of my hair and distributed the oil. To help keep it out of the way, I coiled it and clipped it down with a duckbill clip when I was done with a section. I don’t know if I over did it, but I ran out of oil after finishing half of my head, so make sure you have enough when you start this! Luckily, I had some Cantu Nourishing Body Oil left over. The container didn’t do so well in hot water. 😦

In the next picture, you’ll notice that half of my head is a bit more puffy than the other…The puffy side is the Cantu, the smaller side was the Queen Helene. I’m assuming my hair just shrunk a bit, or the clip placement was off or something like that. When I unclipped it, there was no discernible difference between the two halves, besides the Cantu side was a bit more oily (I had more oil, so I was a little more generous with it).

I wasn’t satisfied with the results of either oil, and I’m starting to question the value of doing hot oil treatments. Maybe I’m jsut not doing it right. To further condition my hair, I tried the imfamous, stinky, and very old 5-Minute Reconstructor, and I have to say that I’m finally sold.

Look at that! I could have let it dry like that and head out! (With normal conditioner, my hair is a bit more of a poof even before I dry it).So what’s the first thing I do with my cute curls?I straighten my hair.

Look at the damaged ends! Ugh!

Yeaaaaah. It was a waste of time because it came out horrible. I wasn’t very good at getting it straight when it was permed, and I’m not any better now that I’m natural!

Me, circa 2007

Final Verdict?: I don’t think I’m going to do a hot oil treatment again anytime soon. It didn’t seem to do very much, but…I do love this Reconstructor. I’m going to have to go back for more, and maybe find a replacement when I run out. And as for straightening my hair…I think I’ll pay for a Dominican Blow-out. Much better results! For now, I’m going to stick with heat-free styles as much as I can.

Hair banding seemed like a good way to get an interesting affect on my hair and a blog post, so I tried it.

1. Start with clean damp hair, in this case I washed and detangled my hair first.
2. Divide your hair into one inch-ish sections. I didn’t divide them all at once and I got lazy at some point, as you’ll see, so bear with me.
3. Moisturize each section thoroughly and put a little shea butter at the tips. I don’t know if it works as a “sealant”, but it’s very good for your hair.
4. Use ponytail holders and wrap it a few times around the base of the section, then down the lock until you can’t go any farther. Each time, the ponytail holder didn’t reach all the way down (my hair is getting so long!) so I used little black rubber bands for the rest.

It’s a fairly simple, if tedious process, with the bonus affect of making you look RIDICULOUS. You can enhance the ridiculous factor by using a bunch of different colored bands. 😀 Here’s how it looked completed:

Yeah. I managed to get to sleep like that after covering it with a a satin scarf. When I woke up and took them out, it looked like this! (Don’t say anything about my bad skin, pretty please)

Pretty neat, right? Problem was, I was in a rush and had NO idea how to style it. My only real attempt look horrible.

So I gave up and combed it out.

Obviously that was a terrible idea. I pulled it back, tossed in a bow, and called it a day.

See what a little make up and a fake mole can do?

The bright side is that it really works well to stretch your hair! I’ll have to figure out a better way to get pretty results and style it. Have you tried banding before? This is only one of the many methods to do it, so how do you band? How do you rock your band-out?

This was my typical transitioning hairstyle before I started college. This is actually me at my college’s orientation. Everyday I would wake up, detangle my hair with conditioner in the shower and walk out the door dripping. I don’t remember how I came up with it, but since I didn’t know there were any online natural hair resources, trust me, I thought I was a genius. I got teased quite often, but I loved it because I had hair and lots of it! I think at this point the last time I permed was probably…I actually have no idea! Going through my facebook it’s hard to tell when I had a perm because at a certain point I almost always wore it as a wash and go or curled with rollers. Whenever I find a close up of myself where I can see my roots, they have that tell-tale sign of natural hair flat-ironed by a novice (me!).

The truth is, there wasn’t a time I remember in my life that I got perms regularly. No money, no time, or no interest, and hey I liked it better that way! Flat-ironing my hair for four hours was awful, but being chemically burned was way less appealing. I wanted to go natural since 2008, but I ruined all my progress by getting a perm a few times (maybe…3 times before I started college in 2009, and twice after) before I realized in July 2010 that I needed to get rid of the permed ends or it would be a vicious cycle of me transitioning, growing frustrated with managing the different textures, perming, watching my hair fall out, and resolving to transition again. I’m still glad I did it, and I can’t imagine going back!

Thinking back, this is why it is important to have an online community and natural friends to support you if you’re trying to give up the creamy crack. If I had had that back then, maybe I wouldn’t have given up so many times. Tell me what you think! (And scold me, if you like.)

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